Give Thanks In Every Circumstance

Being thankful is so much more than appreciating the “good” things in life. It means you are able to give thanks no matter what. Today I’m sharing some things that have been on my heart lately, and giving thanks to God for everything! 

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This Thursday is Thanksgiving, which means this week will be full of bloggers, Instagrammers, Facebookers, Tweeters and YouTubers talking about all the things they are thankful for. They will say they are thankful for the food they eat, the roof over their heads, the clothes on their backs, and maybe even for their families or for the church they belong to. I, in fact, was planning on writing that very thing, until I realized that I couldn’t. Yes, I am thankful for all those things (and much, much more), but my heart is heavy this Thanksgiving. The reality of truly being thankful in every circumstance has never meant more to me than it does now. And I can’t gloss over what it means to be “thankful” when I am finally understanding what it really means. 

The past month has been one of the hardest months of my life. I have lived a very sheltered life in the fact that I was protected from tragedy and heartache for the past 23 years. Yes, I have seen death in my family, and heard of people going through horrible things, but I was too young or too far removed for it to mean much to me. But on October 9th my world came crashing down when my dad called me and told me he had been diagnosed with cancer. I never truly understood what it meant to have a broken heart until I saw my dad and knew I couldn’t help him. The unknown, the fear of what the future holds, and the knowledge that things may never be the same tore me apart. When we found out he had stage 4 lymphoma, that it could possibly be a rare form of the cancer (although we have since learned that it is not), and that my dad’s journey was barely starting, I didn’t know what to do. My dad is my superhero, and the person I look up to the most.
I couldn’t believe that this was happening to him.

Yet in the midst of that, I had an indescribable peace. It is so true when Paul said, “And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus” (Phillippians 4:7). My perfect world was falling apart, but I rested assured in God’s sovereignty. Seeing my Dad continue to set his gaze on the Lord, and constantly point back to Christ gave me the strength to do the same. And every time they went to the doctor, good news or bad news, he still turned back to praise God. He reminded me that I needed to give thanks to the Lord in every circumstance, not just when things are going well. I still don’t know or understand why God chose my dad to go through this, but every day I see more and more how He is using this to make me and my family more like Christ. As it says in Romans 8:28, “And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose.” We may not see the good now, but I rest in knowing that He is in control.

I recently listened to this sermon by Paul Washer about being thankful. He said that to be thankful means we are habitually giving thanks for what is going on. This attribute is a mark of being a true Christian, and we can only be this way because of the grace of God. When we look at all He has done, all He will do, and all He continues to do, how can we not be thankful? And then, when people go through things like cancer, and we find ourselves asking “Why?”, we can have peace, because God is using those circumstances to conform that person to be more like Christ. 

So this Thanksgiving, I am thankful for my dad. I am thankful for the example he has set for me and my family. I am thankful for my church family and my friends who have been lifting us up in prayer. I am thankful for the ability to still be young and able to share the Gospel with those who need to hear it. I am thankful for this cancer, because it has brought me closer to the Lord and to my family. And I am thankful for my dad’s sickness, because God is using it for His glory and to mold my dad to be more like Christ. 

When I shared this post with him the other day, this is what he wrote back: I rejoice only in the fact that my name is written in Heaven (Luke 10:20).  The good news is that God has provided a way of reconciliation for a sinner like me through Jesus Christ.  Any news beyond that is simply “news” that we live through in this life.
I am so thankful to have a father like him, who constantly pushes me towards the Lord. And by the grace of God, he is still able to be used by Him. All glory to God! 

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  1. Jessica Bradshaw

    November 21st, 2016 at 9:23 am

    Becca, my heart breaks for you and your family. I can’t imagine what you’re going through. What a beautiful example of Christ y’all are. Your dad is an incredible man. I will keep you in my prayers. *hugs*

  2. Rebecca @ Happily the Hicks

    November 30th, 2016 at 11:32 am

    Thank you for your prayers, Jessica! He had his first dose of chemo last week, and is feeling yuck, but his pain is gone- Praise the Lord!

  3. Annabella Abalo

    November 21st, 2016 at 11:07 am

    It seems like I’m reading my own story in this post only that this happened to me when I was 8 years old with my mom. It’s hard but we should look at the bright side and be thankful still. My prayers are with your family, Rebecca.

  4. Rebecca @ Happily the Hicks

    November 30th, 2016 at 11:32 am

    I can’t imagine going through something like this at only 8 years old! Thank you for your prayers, Annabella. Thankful for readers like you!

  5. Katie Arnold

    November 21st, 2016 at 12:39 pm

    I can’t even imagine, but your truth and heart really show in this post. I am sending so much love to your family and lots of well wishes and support especially for your dad. <3

  6. Rebecca @ Happily the Hicks

    November 30th, 2016 at 11:33 am

    Thank you Katie! It’s going to be a long journey, but I know that ultimately God is in control.

  7. Divya Budhraja

    November 21st, 2016 at 12:59 pm

    Gosh, I couldn’t do what you’re doing under these circumstances. I’m in awe of your strength and your love. Sending lots and love and well wishes to you and your family. <3

  8. Rebecca @ Happily the Hicks

    November 30th, 2016 at 11:34 am

    Thank you Divya! I’m not going to lie… It’s been the toughest thing I’ve ever gone through. I know it’s only by God’s grace that I’m staying sane!

  9. Kim Munoz

    November 21st, 2016 at 2:48 pm

    This takes me back 4 years ago with my Dad. You are right. They are our heros, they aren’t supposed to get sick. He was always trying to cheer me up and give me hope. When he was the one that was sick! Sending strength and prayers to you and your whole family.

  10. Rebecca @ Happily the Hicks

    November 30th, 2016 at 11:34 am

    I guess that’s just the way dads are… Always thinking of their kiddos, even when they are the ones suffering. Thank you for your prayers, Kim!

  11. Justine Y

    November 21st, 2016 at 7:09 pm

    So sorry for this trial your family is going through, but I love your thoughts here. That picture of you and your dad dancing at your wedding is gorgeous.

  12. Rebecca @ Happily the Hicks

    November 30th, 2016 at 11:35 am

    Thank you! It’s one of my favorite pictures from my wedding. <3

  13. Donna

    November 21st, 2016 at 7:24 pm

    I just came across this and I truly admire your grace and peace. Praying for you and your family. <3

  14. Rebecca @ Happily the Hicks

    November 30th, 2016 at 11:35 am

    Thank you for your prayers, Donna! It’s been tough, but I know it’s only by God’s grace and provision that I’m able to get through this.

  15. Natalie

    November 21st, 2016 at 9:15 pm

    Praying for you and your family, Becca! My father-in-law was diagnosed with stage 4 lung cancer, and I know the feeling of fear and anger and pain. My husband and I are constantly trying to remember that in all things, God is good. I hope your Thanksgiving holiday is beautiful and you make many cherished memories with your family all together <3

  16. Rebecca @ Happily the Hicks

    November 30th, 2016 at 11:37 am

    Thank you so much, Natalie! I love that you and your husband are examples of trusting in God’s sovereignty. We had a wonderful Thanksgiving, and it was so great to be back home with everyone. :)

  17. Kaley Taylor

    November 21st, 2016 at 11:09 pm

    BRB. Crying…
    This was super touching and inspirational. Thank you for allowing yourself to be so vulnerable. My dad is my favorite person in this entire world (except for maybe my finacĂ©). It breaks my heart to ever think of him encountering pain or hardship, but now that he’s getting up there in years it’s hard to accept that I’ll soon deal with it as well. :( I hope that the Lord continues to give you and your family comfort during this trying time.

  18. Rebecca @ Happily the Hicks

    November 30th, 2016 at 11:38 am

    I think of that all the time, especially with my grandparents. I hate knowing that someday I’ll have to say “good bye”, but it’s so freeing knowing that I know exactly where He’s going… He’s going Home. Thank you for your support, Kaley!

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